Time to Treat Yourself with Body Kindness

From the time I was five until just about a year ago, I did not have a loving relationship with my body. Five sounds young, but it was then that I realized that I looked “different.” I had a belly and other girls in my class didn’t. Fast forward 35 years later… I still struggle from…

5 Signs You Might Need a Therapist with Dr. Sanam Hafeez

“I’m not crazy, I’ve just been in a very bad mood 40 years!” I wanted to start this post on a bit of a light-hearted note with a quote from one of my favorite movies/plays, Steel Magnolias, because this can be a touchy topic. Where I grew up, therapists offices were rare. People really did think…

Understanding Your Own Power

The hosts of one of the podcasts I listen to every day (it’s a comedy-based podcast) will often play little “games” where a scenario is presented and the pros and cons are weighed. A recent one asked, “If you were paid $1 million to go back and re-live middle school and high school, would you?”…

How Much Food Do You Waste?

I often joke that it’s a good thing I have two grocery stores within a block of me, because I’m at one or the other every two days. That may not sound very efficient, but I’m a huge fan of fresh food (veggies, meat, dairy) and my frequent visits have allowed me to cut down…

How to Behave During Arguments: 6 Crucial Tips

I am not a good arguer. Mostly because I abhor confrontation and usually just shut down whenever I get into a dispute-type situation. Let’s just say I could never, ever be a lawyer. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been in some pretty heated arguments over the years (sisters don’t always get along). It’s kind of…

Fitness Tips for Telecommuters

When people find out I work from home, the usual response is something like, “Wow, that really takes discipline… I’d be watching TV all day.” But, my biggest problem (and I think other telecommuters would agree) is the discipline to STOP working. I often find myself tap-tap-tapping away at my keyboard late into the night….

How to Deal with an Adult Bully

Sometimes I need a little extra inspiration to get started with these daily blogs, so for today, I Googled “movies with bullies.” The results brought me to an article that listed the “25 Greatest Bullies in Movie History” (not greatest in “grand,” but rather memorable). Can you guess who was #1 on the list? Biff…

Setting Realistic Relationship Goals

As kids, the concept of an ideal relationship often comes in the form of romantic movies. But, the fairy tale outcome is usually not attainable, at least not without some blips and bumps along the way. Dr. Holly Parker, author of If We’re Together, Why Do I Feel So Alone?, recently joined Erica Spiegelman on…